Help To Deal With Negative People
When people around you are being negative it helps to remember
that you don't have to listen to or be affected by them. You do not have to
respond in kind. Negativity is not successfully fought with negativity. Rather,
negativity will only be successfully fought and won over by positivity.
It also helps to remember that each person is on his or her own
pathway through life. Each individual person is experiencing life and
responding to it in his or her own way and at his or her own level. Their
behavior and actions are a result of their own beliefs and expectations that
will no doubt be different from yours.
If a person says or does something that you find hurtful you
will frequently find that they did not really intend you to experience it in
that manner. Not everybody has reached a point in their own awareness and
evolution to see things from perspectives other than their own. When you
encounter a person like this, instead of feeling hurt or disappointed (which
are of course negative responses) you can choose to respond in a more positive
manner.
There are a range of positive responses from which you could
choose. You could point out to that person in a nice way the potential impact
of their actions or behavior. You could forgive them in your thoughts and wish
them all the best but at the same time step back from them in flesh so as to no
longer move within the reach of their negativity.
When you give the matter due consideration, there are in fact
many way in which you can survive negativity through positive response and
action. In contrast, the only way in which to lose is to allow yourself to
respond in a negative manner.
As a friend pointed out today you will only be able to respond
to such situations in a positive way if you have a strong sense of self. You
have to know who you are. You have to know your own worth. This inner
confidence is your true armor that deflects negativity and keeps you safe and
secure in your world. It allows you to be happy and successful and to raise
your head above negative influences.
The possession of a strong sense of self allows you to easily
sort the wheat from the chaff. Inner self-confidence and high self esteem
allows you to be relaxed and to enjoy each moment without getting upset or
angry at circumstances that are outside of your control. You in effect steer
your own boat instead of floating along being buffeted in each and every direction
by the changing tides of life.
Self-esteem and self-confidence are not attributes that you are
born with. They are learned and developed through experience. If you have been
unfortunate and missed out upon that positive experience there is something you
can do about it. Hypnosis is a great help in accessing your subconscious mind
and implanting positive suggestions therein.
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