Saturday, January 23, 2010

Save Your Marriage Before It Starts

PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE, AND THEN MARRY

You do not need to go into marriage blindfolded at least you know what to expect. Marriage is neither a bowl of jelly nor a path lined with roses, but it can be compared to a rough river that you need all your wits to navigate until you are smoothly sailing again. It is easier to Save Your Marriage Before It Starts.

ARE THERE SYMPTOMS AND SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTERS?

This may only be an old remedy but here is a simple test to vouch if your spouse loves you. Therefore, your spouse has to hug you twice before they leave for work, once when they come home for dinner, once after dinner and twice before bedtime. If your spouse agrees with you all the time now and has little attention of matters that used to throw them in a fit then you need to sit down together and talk about what's wrong in order to save the marriage.

If your spouse stays on one side of the bed while sleeping and intimacy has become a forgotten item on your agenda then this is a red big flag that your marriage is falling apart. Some of the most evident signs that a divorce is near goes unnoticed by the spouse. According to some marriage counselors, many couples talk to each other but they do not really communicate with each other.

WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?

What are some possible reactions to a marital crisis?

One possible reaction to a martial crisis could be just to give up, which is a defeated reaction. Common possible reactions to a marriage crisis are negative and they appear to be impulsive reactions of how some people could react without taking the time to think before they assess their situations.

Books aplenty are sold in your favorite bookstores. A possible reaction to a marital crisis could be that you tried to control your spouse or talk your spouse into not leaving you. Your negative reaction to your marriage crisis could declare war against your spouse by being insulting, talking negatively to your spouse or by physical assaults.

WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?

Take that action now. This is the most damaging causing people to procrastinate and react properly. Myth 4. Myth 2.

HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?

Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair. In case, you will give him another chance, let him promise that this thing will never happen again. Here are some helpful pieces of advice.

WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?

Although money cant buy happiness, it is important. Spend weekends together to bond and do activities that you both enjoy. There is a saying that when poverty knocks, love goes out of the window. Disillusionment grows when expectations are unfulfilled. Emotionally or physically abusing abuse a spouse will bring the day closer to disaster, when he/she will decide that enough is enough. There is history of unhappiness behind words and you cannot change history since a history of dissatisfaction has build up. Couples do no always engage in rational discussion.

HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?

Make the initiative to be intimate with your spouse by getting rid of any distractions, holding hands, cuddling, watching the sun rise, listening with your heart and sharing your feelings. When you appreciate yourself, the feeling will contaminate your husband and he will feel the same way too.

Marriage experts have made many contributions and come up with the common denominators to assist couples with having a successful marriage. Leave the kids to your mother. Each path must be treated differently because what is good for one may not be good for the other. This is not a hopeless situation because your spouse can always change his mind.

IS MARRIAGE WORTH SAVING?

Save Your Marriage Before It Starts!

You just have to take the first step. Unfortunately, there is no course in any school on how to build a successful marriage.